Single with consequences

I’m kinda laughing as I type this one

In the attempt to continue dating one person, I’ve hit a road block

I’m a communicator, hence the blog, right?

In knowing our expectations from any relationship we are able to establish boundaries

How many times have we went out with someone and thought, well I guess I could tolerate that

Communication.

It takes time and effort

Commitment

Prioritization

Reprioritization

Not everyone is in this stage of singleness

And that is okay

What is not okay, is wanting to ‘help’ someone transition to the stage you are in, you can’t control them, nor should you try to. Danger Will Rogers.

What is okay is to communicate your stage and it’s expectations so the other understands and can decide for themselves where they want to be

So it’s single, with consequences

You wouldn’t expect a toddler to be at the same stage as a preschooler or a graduate, why expect your dating partner to be anything different

So if you are not in the toddler dating stage but rather want a graduate or relationship level partner, stop looking at daycares and preschools

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