One of the groups I’m in with single girls has been chatting away recently About life, love, and the like So many convos going in so many different directions. At the same time. We are women. We come from so many career paths and yet the message is the same Being single is so much …
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The roller coaster
I’d love to tell all of you that I am happy each and every day I’m not I’d love to tell you that my social media paints the complete picture of who I am It does not I’d love to say that I do not feel anxious, scared, worried or just plain worthless ever That …
Single and smiling
Sometimes I remember that being single truly makes me smile It’s knowing I can go and do whatever my crazy schedule allows And that I’m growing That I’m becoming the me I need to be For myself And that it’s a process It takes time to be that caterpillar To become that butterfly To form …
Leave the door open….
How many times do we shut that door on what we want How many times do we refuse to let anyone in And… When someone cracks it open at 1 am when they fail to show up that evening How many times do we feel worthless enough to open that door? The door that provides …
Single not desperate
We are single We are not desperate When someone does not respond to us It is okay to walk away When we are not a priority It’s okay to call them out Value yourself Value your time And remember We are single We are not desperate
What we attract
We attract similar to what we project What you been attracting lately? For the past 8 years, it’s been a bit icky for me Attracting those who I wouldn’t even consider dating in ‘real life’ Why? Well, the vibe I was putting out there was one of helping all the ‘strays’ I’m all about helping …
Single with consequences
I’m kinda laughing as I type this one In the attempt to continue dating one person, I’ve hit a road block I’m a communicator, hence the blog, right? In knowing our expectations from any relationship we are able to establish boundaries How many times have we went out with someone and thought, well I guess …
Dating my dad
So much reflection lately So much time spent trying to process why I continue to attract men who are not good for me And as I sit down and try and dig a bit deeper into who I am I am broken I am hurt I am tired As I put the puzzle pieces together …
Blue eyed Sinatra
He is so full of personality. Larger than life. This will be our first meeting. He announced Oh, it’s not a date? Nope. I never call a first encounter a date, always a meeting. I watch his blue eyes sparkle. I love his hat, it’s grey plaid with a royal blue sash to it. Tell …
Behind the plaid hat and beautiful blue eyes….
Why do I meet them? I don’t have that answer. Sometimes my gut warns me but I go anyway He has a spunky personality Full of life and energy Sold all that he owned 2 years ago Bought a truck and a camper Went to Oregon to ‘smoke weed and write poetry’ I leaned in …
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