What we are inside comes out In the things we say In how we treat others In how we respond Ever wonder what it would be like if instead of treating someone like they were ‘less than’ when they were struggling, we helped them up to become ‘more than’ It’s truly the same amount of …
Author Archives: Victoria Ayne
Let’s talk pandemic dating….
To be completely honest here, I’ve not done much in this pandemic. I jumped back in the ring just to try it out. Postives: More responses because what else can we do now? Video chats, get to know someone over video earlier. Basically, if they can’t carry a convo, you ditch them prior to that …
Retargeting….it’s a thing
In social media they talk about retargeting all the time. Someone who has shown interest in you, get in front of them again Does that make sense in life? Sometimes we write off those connections we haven’t spoken with in a while Those people we met that one time so long ago But is it …
Single not taken
Single not taken? Interestingly enough I’ve seen more posts about why we are single. There has to be some reason. We are either searching for someone. Stuck getting over an ex In a relationship that hasn’t gone to that marriage level as of yet And that’s it. Yet it’s not. There are some of us …
Embracing me
Have you ever taken that step back and really looked at yourself? In that mirror, see the reflection and just think…. Who am I looking at? I’ve been doing that so much lately. Covid has us trapped in our homes. Social interaction really doesn’t seem to be a priority much anymore. We all try but …
The most important Valentine….
I sent out 9 cards this year. Saving 1 card. At first I wasn’t certain who it should go to….. Then it came to me. Myself. What would I write to myself and seal up to be opened next year on Valentine’s Day? What would you write to yourself? It makes me smile that next …
Remain calm, in the event of an emergency….
It seems relevant The standard warning on an airplane, the one we fail to pay attention to Remain calm Yet, no one has specifically shared with us to do so In the event of an emergency… You mean like the one we’ve experienced over the past year? Wouldn’t it be nice to close our eyes …
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What I wrote….
I purchased 10 blank Valentine’s Day cards this year. Tonight, I wrote in 9 of those. 3 to my children, 3 to my family, and 3 to some long time friends living far away. The last one is empty. I struggled over who to send it to. Then it came to me. Myself. A letter …
Be my Valentine
It’s no secret this is prob my fav holiday Why? Well, I quite love who I am. And even more I love sharing that with others. Making someone smile on this particular day is quite fun. It is expected from all of us, right? We all secretly hope someone is thinking about us on this …
You should be lonely….
I’m told I should be lonely. More open to settling. Work too hard. Achieve too much. Drive myself to insane levels. When I look in the mirror, I’m proud of what I see. When I go to bed at night. I’m content. Happy with what was produced that day. Simply don’t find any lonely in …
Singled Out. Positive Singles. Real Connections. 