To be completely honest here, I’ve not done much in this pandemic. I jumped back in the ring just to try it out. Postives: More responses because what else can we do now? Video chats, get to know someone over video earlier. Basically, if they can’t carry a convo, you ditch them prior to that …
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Single and Homely
What did you think of with that title? Did you immediately think of an unattractive person? Did it bring up all those dates that may have been a bit of a timewaster perhaps? Did you ponder what ‘homely’ truly equates to from your perspective? Or….. Did you think to yourself Yep. I’m single. And I’m …
Size matters….more adventures in dating
He is a farmer Big guy, broad shoulders Sporting Carrhart jacket and thick sweatshirts, baseball cap Working a lot; it is harvest We’ve chatted for almost a week(that’s a long time in the online dating world) And an official date is on the calendar….it was yesterday in fact Well, it was AND it wasn’t “Can …
Adventures in pandemic dating….groceries?
He’s an architectural engineer, sarcastic, looks a bit of an introvert. Good mix for my personality. The date is set at a restaurant to appease both of our foodie obsessions. Chatter was decent, introverts are a bit challenging to pull info from, a non issue for extroverted me. One hour and 20 minutes into this …
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It’s not you, it’s me. Redefined.
It’s not you, it’s me. A phrase most of us have heard in our lifetime, some of us, many times over. It’s a cop out, right? A way to avoid telling someone you really didn’t like them, or is it? A date I went on a few months ago, text me out of nowhere last …
Rain drops keep falling on my..
Rainy days Love em? Hate em? I woke and heard it, the rain. Wanted to work out inside but…. Why? When did we stop loving to walk in the rain? I realized I hadn’t. I still very much loved walking in the rain. And what about that amazing daisy umbrella? So I did just that….. …
Think it over….
Thinking it over. Many times we do that with relationships. Good ones. Bad ones. Too many times we let thinking it over steal our time. In the time we spend contemplating so many things about that relationship, we could actually be spending time enriching one. So when you get tempted to stop and think it …
Focus.
I’ll admit this can be challenging for me. Focus. Make a long ‘to do’ list. Work on it. Repeat daily. How many times we look at others and wonder why we aren’t as far as…. Focus. What if we scrap the ‘to do’ list and make a road map Where do you want to go? …
Can’t steal happiness.
So many things out there requesting our attention Social media Netflix Tiger King? The news(if you prefer to call it that) Pick your poison What is stealing your happiness? Turn all that noise down and listen Do you hear it? That is the sound of happiness And no one can steal it So get out …
Yep, it’s short
Life. It’s short And in a pandemic, most are finally finding time to reflect On their lives Most likely in one of two boats In the first boat…. Sad, lonely, depressed, restless. Second boat…… Finishing all of those ‘to do’s’ we always said we’d do Reaching out to those people we always meant to touch …
Singled Out. Positive Singles. Real Connections. 