He is a farmer Big guy, broad shoulders Sporting Carrhart jacket and thick sweatshirts, baseball cap Working a lot; it is harvest We’ve chatted for almost a week(that’s a long time in the online dating world) And an official date is on the calendar….it was yesterday in fact Well, it was AND it wasn’t “Can …
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We are One…..
Well hey there. As of this month, we are officially One. The Singled Out group is officially One year old. The One thing I did not expect was who ‘we’ are. We are young and old We are educated and uneducated We are male and female We are always iterating on what our group looks …
Turn the negative
We are all guilty of it The negative Lately, I’ve been uber guilty of it, can we say ‘uber’ anymore in that context? So today on the morning walk, I thought about some of my negatives from yesterday Those I could remember And how could I have ‘turned’ those? I also complimented myself on those …
Wander.
Life is full of choices. Most of us learn that the hard way. I sure did. At one point you dig yourself out. Stand up. And take a deep breathe. What to do now? Well, I could have a Starbucks. I could go shopping. Or. I could wander. But where? The choice. The first year …
Touch
In this social distancing time I think of touch I live alone And miss it The littlest touch From a family member Or a friend A hug A human interaction The virtual meeting screen feels cold The faces may smile But the touch of one human to another Missing My daughter FaceTimes ‘Mom, hold my …
Rain drops keep falling on my..
Rainy days Love em? Hate em? I woke and heard it, the rain. Wanted to work out inside but…. Why? When did we stop loving to walk in the rain? I realized I hadn’t. I still very much loved walking in the rain. And what about that amazing daisy umbrella? So I did just that….. …
Love it.
It’s Monday. The first day of the work week for most. A day some choose to hit that snooze button and delay. The inevitable, right? What if you could change that? Hear the sound of Monday morning and ‘love it’? Do you remember a time when you jumped out of bed every day of the …
Boundaries. Set em.
Many times we feel obligated. To be the first one to text, to rearrange our schedules, to help others, etc. Healthy relationships have boundaries. They communicate. You are worth my time. I am worth yours. Balanced. If you feel you are always the one giving and the relationship is exhausting, it may just be time …