Less than, more than

What we are inside comes out In the things we say In how we treat others In how we respond Ever wonder what it would be like if instead of treating someone like they were ‘less than’ when they were struggling, we helped them up to become ‘more than’ It’s truly the same amount of …

Let’s talk pandemic dating….

To be completely honest here, I’ve not done much in this pandemic. I jumped back in the ring just to try it out. Postives: More responses because what else can we do now? Video chats, get to know someone over video earlier. Basically, if they can’t carry a convo, you ditch them prior to that …

Single not taken

Single not taken? Interestingly enough I’ve seen more posts about why we are single. There has to be some reason. We are either searching for someone. Stuck getting over an ex In a relationship that hasn’t gone to that marriage level as of yet And that’s it. Yet it’s not. There are some of us …

It’s a love story

Your life is a love story All of our lives are What did we choose to love? Where did we love? Who did we love? As we reflect on this past year, can you answer those questions honestly? Admit to yourself where your love was spent? After all, it is indeed your love story. How …

Resolution is an action

Resolutions are actions They are actions you plan to take Notice the word ‘plan’ there? Notice the word ‘actions’ Those are the missing components in every failed launch Whether personally or professionally So do yourself and all of us a favor If you do not plan to take any actions or make a plan Don’t …

Single and Homely

What did you think of with that title? Did you immediately think of an unattractive person? Did it bring up all those dates that may have been a bit of a timewaster perhaps? Did you ponder what ‘homely’ truly equates to from your perspective? Or….. Did you think to yourself Yep. I’m single. And I’m …

The team of one

What we accomplish as a team of one can often times feel overwhelming Especially when just coming out of a long term relationship We feel that need to be all powerful A superhero We look at that man or woman in the mirror and tell ourselves I can do this! How easy it is to …

Single and indifferent

So many of us walk down the single and indifferent road I am single. I know what I like. I’m not willing to change for you or anyone else. We are indifferent. In that very statement we are saying that we are right. It is the responsibility of anyone who dates us to prove us …

Connect

More than ever we need to connect Single? Introvert? Extrovert? No matter. We ALL need connection. There is nothing like being in the presence of another human One you truly enjoy chatting with, laughing with, going thru a pandemic with Yet so many were unprepared for whatever this is Connect It’s not easy. Yet it’s …

The past

It’ll haunt you if you allow it to, consume all of your energy and time 10 years ago my ex left me after a wonderful 19 year marriage To say I have compared so many dates to that marriage is an understatement It consumed me And then, I left it where it was In the …

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