When that alarm goes off, what is it that goes thru your mind? Is it…Ugh. I need coffee.Is it…my ‘to do’ list today is insane Or. Is it…I’m ready to jump out of bed and hit that ground running. You have a list of things to tackle and went to bed exhausted tackling the prior …
Author Archives: Victoria Ayne
You are remarkable
Just a reminder When everyone else feels you are not You very much are remarkable You are not like everyone else And that is what makes you even more remarkable So, if or when you hear ‘remarks’ about who you are that do not reflect that…. Find that fire Fuel that flame And set the …
Grit
Being from the midwest, the term Grit reminds me of southern grits Recently spending time in NC, I consumed my fair share of this item. Grits can be Hard Grainy Tasteless Or, cooked properly, a completely different experience. Smooth Flavorful Mouth watering with anticipation in each spoonful How can this one item, Grits, take on …
Habitual Focus
Do you ever look back and say, hmmm…. Why didn’t I focus on that? How is it that someone else achieved so much more? What is wrong with me? Well. Nothing. So few of us truly ‘focus’ on our habits Make those few things a priority to focus on We chase A LOT of shiny …
Relatable
Some of us struggle with being ‘relatable’ Definition: Enabling a person to feel that they can relate to someone or something. Have you ever had an amazing idea, but delivery did not go so well? Perhaps you are a bit unrelatable like too Not all of us are great at that part, but the beauty …
Self Confidence
Self a person’s essential being that distinguishes them from others. Confidence a feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities. Basically a natural tendency to be who you are and appreciate that. So simple. So challenging. Embrace yourself. You got this.
Single and Homely
What did you think of with that title? Did you immediately think of an unattractive person? Did it bring up all those dates that may have been a bit of a timewaster perhaps? Did you ponder what ‘homely’ truly equates to from your perspective? Or….. Did you think to yourself Yep. I’m single. And I’m …
Missing Numbers
This year there are missing numbers Numbers of people missing Pandemics are tough We now know We live it day after day for months What about those who can’t take this Those whose mental health was just one pandemic away from disaster They are the missing numbers People who need our help As the Holidays …
Positively Pandemic
Positive Pandemic? Positive: constructive, optimistic, or confidentPandemic: (of a disease) prevalent over a whole country or the world Is it possible to have a Positive Pandemic? We look all around and wonder We ask ourselves the question over and over again Take action How can what we do to be constructive, optimistic or confident to …
The team of one
What we accomplish as a team of one can often times feel overwhelming Especially when just coming out of a long term relationship We feel that need to be all powerful A superhero We look at that man or woman in the mirror and tell ourselves I can do this! How easy it is to …
Singled Out. Positive Singles. Real Connections. 