So many of us walk down the single and indifferent road I am single. I know what I like. I’m not willing to change for you or anyone else. We are indifferent. In that very statement we are saying that we are right. It is the responsibility of anyone who dates us to prove us …
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Mind blown
So many times we are stuck in our minds We play the same things over and over Until the sunshine has slipped into the sunset And we fall asleep exhausted What we need is a little explosive A firecracker perhaps Something that breaks thru that mental barricade An explosion to propel our minds forward Wouldn’t …
Growth
Growth. Seems like a simple word. Size or stage of development So we are all growing? But are we? If you have no plan. No goal. No agenda. Are you growing or existing? One will keep you where you are at. The other will take you somewhere. So what do you plan to do today?
Stop. Collaborate and Listen.
So many times we fail to listen. Are you humming the song? Hearing the tune? Stop. Collaborate. Listen. But are they in the correct order? We can’t collaborate until we listen. Take time to listen. Take time to listen. Oh and one more thing. Take time to listen.
Connect
More than ever we need to connect Single? Introvert? Extrovert? No matter. We ALL need connection. There is nothing like being in the presence of another human One you truly enjoy chatting with, laughing with, going thru a pandemic with Yet so many were unprepared for whatever this is Connect It’s not easy. Yet it’s …
Create Give It Tea
Creativity Create Give It Tea No matter how you spell it out, it can be a beautiful thing Think for a minute. About the last time you truly felt creative Think for a moment when you had the feeling that it truly had no limits It was oozing out of you with no end in …
The past
It’ll haunt you if you allow it to, consume all of your energy and time 10 years ago my ex left me after a wonderful 19 year marriage To say I have compared so many dates to that marriage is an understatement It consumed me And then, I left it where it was In the …
Size matters….more adventures in dating
He is a farmer Big guy, broad shoulders Sporting Carrhart jacket and thick sweatshirts, baseball cap Working a lot; it is harvest We’ve chatted for almost a week(that’s a long time in the online dating world) And an official date is on the calendar….it was yesterday in fact Well, it was AND it wasn’t “Can …
Bring back the concerts….
We tell ourselves some day this will be over We look in the mirror and wonder if this can be reality Is it a nightmare we just can’t seem to awaken from? It’s past that point of no return This is affecting every part of the normal we once knew We find new hobbies to …
Adventures in pandemic dating….groceries?
He’s an architectural engineer, sarcastic, looks a bit of an introvert. Good mix for my personality. The date is set at a restaurant to appease both of our foodie obsessions. Chatter was decent, introverts are a bit challenging to pull info from, a non issue for extroverted me. One hour and 20 minutes into this …
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