Well hey there. As of this month, we are officially One. The Singled Out group is officially One year old. The One thing I did not expect was who ‘we’ are. We are young and old We are educated and uneducated We are male and female We are always iterating on what our group looks …
Author Archives: Victoria Ayne
It’s not you, it’s me. Redefined.
It’s not you, it’s me. A phrase most of us have heard in our lifetime, some of us, many times over. It’s a cop out, right? A way to avoid telling someone you really didn’t like them, or is it? A date I went on a few months ago, text me out of nowhere last …
Single and Wild
Well if that title doesn’t peak your interest, ya just might be married Kidding. What is it that catches our interest in another? What is it we seek? And why do we need to ‘tame’ it once it’s found? So many start off with the ‘wild’ and then seek to eliminate it. Idea. Keep the …
Hello from WA
Wanted to check in and say hello from Washington Spokane How are all the single peeps handling this eternal Covid season? Now that I’m located in a hot spot, it’s interesting to me. Masks everywhere Took me a bit to adjust but day 3, I have a mask every where I go. MN was a …
Zoobz. Those…ya know…. first time zoomers(cringe)
Zoobz. What are zoobz? New zoomers. Zero clue on how to run one, this is their ‘first time zooming’ Oh how we cringe at Zoobz. Secretly, you hope they practice a little beforehand. They rarely ever do. Secretly, you are wishing they know what time zone the meeting is in. Is that meeting your time …
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Testing Positive.
This is a challenging time. Mentally. Emotionally. Socially. Our norms have been turned upside down. And how about you? Have you tested positive? Have you taken the time to encourage others? To reach out. To fight this, whatever it truly is, and remain positive? Take just a little time today for yourself and/or others if …
Team work?
Team work. The term takes on diff meanings To diff groups One group will look at this as a time waster More appropriate to relabel the term to Team Waste. Another group will look at this as a conflict of personalities Perhaps a better name for this team would be ‘The Clash’…. after all, it …
What’s in the bucket?
I love to ask people what is on their bucket list. Why? Well you get a better feel for who they are on the inside Do they have a list? Is it a dynamic list? Or static? Are the items big? Small? Have they taken items off of the bucket list? If so, what? When? …
Time off. Do it.
We all have commitments. We feel obligated to them. If we don’t accomplish them, who will? We are in a season that requires self care. An elevated amount. And yet, you and I keep plugging along. Never skipping a beat. I’m taking tonight off. Not because of any commitment or conflict. Because my healthy self …
To be an expert….
To be an expert It takes knowledge It takes effort It takes time It takes commitment It takes persistence Not one of us was born an expert In any subject So, will you be an expert? We don’t take time to focus Truly focus on being an expert In ONE thing So, what ONE thing …
Singled Out. Positive Singles. Real Connections. 