Thinking it over. Many times we do that with relationships. Good ones. Bad ones. Too many times we let thinking it over steal our time. In the time we spend contemplating so many things about that relationship, we could actually be spending time enriching one. So when you get tempted to stop and think it …
Category Archives: Dating
Boundaries. Set em.
Many times we feel obligated. To be the first one to text, to rearrange our schedules, to help others, etc. Healthy relationships have boundaries. They communicate. You are worth my time. I am worth yours. Balanced. If you feel you are always the one giving and the relationship is exhausting, it may just be time …
Focus.
I’ll admit this can be challenging for me. Focus. Make a long ‘to do’ list. Work on it. Repeat daily. How many times we look at others and wonder why we aren’t as far as…. Focus. What if we scrap the ‘to do’ list and make a road map Where do you want to go? …
Trampoline.
It sits there waiting Ignored Leaves and branches from the past few years You could argue I’ve social distanced from it A large square trampoline The last time? Well, it was in a snow storm a few years ago As we shoveled I threw him a mischievous look and ventured in that direction Climbed up …
Why did you call ‘me’?
I’m your friend for life. So when someone calls I haven’t spoken to in years…. I listen. And when the pause happens, I ask, why did you call me? Some are taken aback the first time, but those who know me understand. Well….I’m not sure why I called you? Yes. You are sure. You called …
Singled Out. Positive Singles. Real Connections. 