So many of us walk down the single and indifferent road I am single. I know what I like. I’m not willing to change for you or anyone else. We are indifferent. In that very statement we are saying that we are right. It is the responsibility of anyone who dates us to prove us …
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Connect
More than ever we need to connect Single? Introvert? Extrovert? No matter. We ALL need connection. There is nothing like being in the presence of another human One you truly enjoy chatting with, laughing with, going thru a pandemic with Yet so many were unprepared for whatever this is Connect It’s not easy. Yet it’s …
The past
It’ll haunt you if you allow it to, consume all of your energy and time 10 years ago my ex left me after a wonderful 19 year marriage To say I have compared so many dates to that marriage is an understatement It consumed me And then, I left it where it was In the …
We are One…..
Well hey there. As of this month, we are officially One. The Singled Out group is officially One year old. The One thing I did not expect was who ‘we’ are. We are young and old We are educated and uneducated We are male and female We are always iterating on what our group looks …
It’s not you, it’s me. Redefined.
It’s not you, it’s me. A phrase most of us have heard in our lifetime, some of us, many times over. It’s a cop out, right? A way to avoid telling someone you really didn’t like them, or is it? A date I went on a few months ago, text me out of nowhere last …
Testing Positive.
This is a challenging time. Mentally. Emotionally. Socially. Our norms have been turned upside down. And how about you? Have you tested positive? Have you taken the time to encourage others? To reach out. To fight this, whatever it truly is, and remain positive? Take just a little time today for yourself and/or others if …
What’s in the bucket?
I love to ask people what is on their bucket list. Why? Well you get a better feel for who they are on the inside Do they have a list? Is it a dynamic list? Or static? Are the items big? Small? Have they taken items off of the bucket list? If so, what? When? …
Time off. Do it.
We all have commitments. We feel obligated to them. If we don’t accomplish them, who will? We are in a season that requires self care. An elevated amount. And yet, you and I keep plugging along. Never skipping a beat. I’m taking tonight off. Not because of any commitment or conflict. Because my healthy self …
The easy button
We all have those friends…. Those who seem to ‘excel’ at what they do. They bring passion to it We hear them talk about it and reflect on our own work Do we excel at it? Do others see passion in what we do? Bring in ‘the easy button’ What do others see in you? …
Turn the negative
We are all guilty of it The negative Lately, I’ve been uber guilty of it, can we say ‘uber’ anymore in that context? So today on the morning walk, I thought about some of my negatives from yesterday Those I could remember And how could I have ‘turned’ those? I also complimented myself on those …
Singled Out. Positive Singles. Real Connections. 