Life is full of choices. Most of us learn that the hard way. I sure did. At one point you dig yourself out. Stand up. And take a deep breathe. What to do now? Well, I could have a Starbucks. I could go shopping. Or. I could wander. But where? The choice. The first year …
Tag Archives: Love
Touch
In this social distancing time I think of touch I live alone And miss it The littlest touch From a family member Or a friend A hug A human interaction The virtual meeting screen feels cold The faces may smile But the touch of one human to another Missing My daughter FaceTimes ‘Mom, hold my …
Rain drops keep falling on my..
Rainy days Love em? Hate em? I woke and heard it, the rain. Wanted to work out inside but…. Why? When did we stop loving to walk in the rain? I realized I hadn’t. I still very much loved walking in the rain. And what about that amazing daisy umbrella? So I did just that….. …
Love it.
It’s Monday. The first day of the work week for most. A day some choose to hit that snooze button and delay. The inevitable, right? What if you could change that? Hear the sound of Monday morning and ‘love it’? Do you remember a time when you jumped out of bed every day of the …
Think it over….
Thinking it over. Many times we do that with relationships. Good ones. Bad ones. Too many times we let thinking it over steal our time. In the time we spend contemplating so many things about that relationship, we could actually be spending time enriching one. So when you get tempted to stop and think it …
Boundaries. Set em.
Many times we feel obligated. To be the first one to text, to rearrange our schedules, to help others, etc. Healthy relationships have boundaries. They communicate. You are worth my time. I am worth yours. Balanced. If you feel you are always the one giving and the relationship is exhausting, it may just be time …
Why did you call ‘me’?
I’m your friend for life. So when someone calls I haven’t spoken to in years…. I listen. And when the pause happens, I ask, why did you call me? Some are taken aback the first time, but those who know me understand. Well….I’m not sure why I called you? Yes. You are sure. You called …
Can’t steal happiness.
So many things out there requesting our attention Social media Netflix Tiger King? The news(if you prefer to call it that) Pick your poison What is stealing your happiness? Turn all that noise down and listen Do you hear it? That is the sound of happiness And no one can steal it So get out …
Yep, it’s short
Life. It’s short And in a pandemic, most are finally finding time to reflect On their lives Most likely in one of two boats In the first boat…. Sad, lonely, depressed, restless. Second boat…… Finishing all of those ‘to do’s’ we always said we’d do Reaching out to those people we always meant to touch …
Dating topics
Many times I’ve been asked to present or discuss dating topics Healthy relationships Toxic ones What to expect on a first date How to online date Attention single people!! I suck at dating Have for over 8 single years now Well let’s be honest, I was never good at it in middle or high school …
Singled Out. Positive Singles. Real Connections. 